A design journal

Coffee & Misery

The twin muses of design.

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About this place

This is a virtual place to explore the connection between space and mind.

It's a journal for anyone who notices that making their external space beautiful makes their internal space beautiful.

From the journal

The kitchen renovation I almost didn't do — and why I'm so glad I did

Six months, two contractors, and one very patient partner later, here's everything I learned about gut-renovating a small kitchen on a real budget.

No paint, no permanent fixtures — just smart layering, the right textiles, and a few pieces worth investing in.

Every design guide tells you to edit ruthlessly. I disagree — here's why a little clutter is actually the point.

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Renovations, budgets, contractors, and the chaos in between.

Styling, layering, and the art of making a space feel like you.

Principles, opinions, and the occasional hot take on interior design.

Things we love

A short, honest list of things I actually use and recommend. No filler.

Transforms any corner. The one piece I tell every renter to buy first.

Softer than it looks, warmer than you'd expect. Goes with everything.

Three sizes, one color family. The easiest shelf styling you'll ever do.

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